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I’ve been going through my usual circle of blogs and the topic of sex seems to be flying all over lately. Hmm…is it the horny period or something? Anywayz never mind that…

In all honesty, I consider myself as an extremely conservative person coming from a very traditional family and all. But, inevitably after being exposed to foreign culture in Australia for like 3 and a half years, I’ll admit that I’ve learnt to be more open-minded and more susceptive towards others opinions towards love, relationships and sex of course. But I still strongly believe that certain traditional values should be kept. Like monogamy and keeping yourself for your husband blar blar…..
I used to have this young friend I got to know in my JC years when we were in some competition. He was 4 years my junior. He was a very sweet guy really. Perhaps he had a crush or something on me then, but that was that. He’s happily attached now. =)
Well, while I was in Australia, he would write to me…yes…snail mail. Quite cute right. I mean amidst all the Internet and emails stuffs, he chose to write to me instead. It was really sweet!(Told you I was a “traditional” person.)
Anywayz, we started talking about our lives, what’s happening, what’s happy and what’s sad. He shared with me on his opinions about pre-maritial sex. And he had no qualms nor reservations to claim that he would have sex before marriage. I was taken aback with his so-called outburst and honesty. But at the same time, I felt that he was just being frank with his thoughts with me, he wasn’t trying to be all hypocrite and maybe even try to impress me or something. I accepted his honesty readily, no doubts, no bias, no prejudice and certainly no judgment. He had his rights to having his own opinions yar?
Through the years I became to see for myself that the youngsters in Singapore are actually more open-minded than I thought. I guess I was abit naïve then thinking that everyone shared my views. A friend of mine even got herself pregnant and ended up with abortion because she and her bf was just too young to take on all that responsibility. Well, they split after that, it was sad…but it happened.
It was then I realized that perhaps the world was not that innocent after all. So stories of romps in campus starting flying…it was funny initially, I never thought uni grads were so active in their “xxx-tra curriculum” activities.
People don’t regard sex as being an “exclusive” activity anymore. Perhaps to some, it’s really about screwing the more the better and perhaps gaining more experience since. Bloggers like SPG certainly have no reservations in discussing all her sex romps and her preferences in ang mohs. I applaud her honesty and her ability to open herself up to criticisms and insults but yet maintaining her own point of views. I don’t judge her because I don’t think anyone has any rights or whatsoever to judge anybody or somebody. Free of speech that is…To put it plainly, everyone’s having sex!!!!!! Somewhere, somehow!! But I guess sometimes we overlook the responsibility that comes with it.

I read a blog somewhere that a young girl was impregnated by her SAF scholar bf. But that scoundrel broke up with her (on or after her birthday I think) because he felt he was just not ready to cope with the “mess”. Mess. He used the word MESS!!! What happened to his conscious? He obviously was NOT thinking of the consequences when he was “messing” around with his girlfriend, and having a great time I suppose? How irresponsible!!!! And a bloody scholar somemore!!!! ARRRGGGHSSSS!!!!!

Aren’t they suppose to be cream of the crop with all the good virtues and qualities stuff shit? What happened to their morals and conscious? Failed moral education in school or what???????
#%*%*&^&^*&%$#%*^*&^*^&*(%$#^%^(*&()*)*

*ahem* pardon me, need to re-compose myself a lil……

So anywayz, she decided to keep the baby and be a single mother. I truly applaud her for her courage. In a “conservative”(note the irony) environment in Singapore, it takes a lot of courage to be a single (stress the word)-UNWED parent. I would run and give her a big bear hug if I knew who she is right now. *sigh* I truly empathize with her and what she is going through. She’s one brave soul!

We’re all adults now, not hormone raging teenagers anymore. We should start thinking of our actions versus their consequences. Life’s not a joke!Do cherish LIFE!

Blabbered by KaiRiNu at 11:21 AM